Theo Hartley — The Human PLAYBOOK
Relationships & Attraction

"Doctor, can I change him?"

Everyone is looking for love. Everyone wants love. Not a big secret.

And behold the miracle: we find someone, and it actually goes well, both sides are interested, there's even talk of moving in — but...

There's that maddening trait. That unforgivable habit. That extreme worldview. And we wonder the wonder that has scorched lovers' souls for centuries:

Is it possible — and is it right — to try to change someone inside a relationship?

Well, the answer is yes. Or actually no. Fine — maybe, but it depends.

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