When I look at real couples, and look for a practical, everyday definition of love, this is the best thing I have found.
Whoever loves you is willing to change plans for you.
It doesn't have to be only agreeing to relocate for two years to the other side of the world for you.
It can also be something everyday, like getting up half an hour earlier and helping with the errands, staying an extra hour in a place that doesn't interest you, lingering another quarter of an hour on a subject that doesn't speak to you.
It is sacrificing your own comfort for your partner's sake on a daily basis.
And not making an issue of it.
There is love on this earth. Don't look for it. Build it.